Skip to main content

Very scary but good news

It was a week day evening and we decided to order Chinese food.  It was a great idea in my head until we got it delivered and it came in those flimsy white to go boxes.  When Cody was finished with his three bites, I grabbed the box to put it in the fridge and dropped the entire thing all over the kitchen floor.

It was a rainy Saturday afternoon and we decided to take a ride to look at some cars.  I was walking back through the parking lot and tripped and fell into a massive puddle.  The kids stood there asking me if I was ok, and I couldn't get up because I couldn't use my hands to push myself off the ground.

One day, we were driving and I went to pick up my coffee to take a sip and I dropped it and spilled it all over the car.

Most of you probably just think i'm clumsy and don't understand why these things would bother me so much.  The truth is, it's annoying, frustrating, embarrasing, and painful.  These are just a few examples of things that happen on a daily basis. Dystonia just sucks.  My left wrist is straight now and I can kind of open my fingers but the pain is excrutiating and I can't straighten them enough to use that hand.  I am pretty sure my ring finger is broken and very painful.  My feet and my back give me trouble all the time, causing me to fall alot.  I have been desperately searching for an answer.  I have seen several neurologists and neurosurgeons and no one has been returning my calls or e-mails and no one has had any answers.  I was very close to just giving up after I called my neurologist and was told he couldn't see me until September!

Finally last week, I spoke to my original surgeon, who is in Albany, NY.  I have tried to find someone more local, but it just isnt working out.  She is the only one that has helped me all these years, and I think after this nightmare, I know that I need to just stick with her.  She is willing to help me once again!  We have found out that my DBS is broken and not working properly, which is why my symptoms aren't improving.  My surgeon has suggested re-doing the entire DBS and upgrading to a new model with only one battery pack.  She believes this will bring me the kind of relief I had all those years!  So, heres to some good news and lots of prayers.  I will likely be having this done at the beginning of the year, and hopefully will be in much better shape very soon!

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

When Pineapple socks aren’t enough

I wake up in the morning, get my kids ready for school, make my husband and I a cup of coffee and take three small pills. When you look at them you’d never imagine what they could do to your body but right from the beginning I was willing to do it. No matter what it took, I would do it. Little did I know, these pills would just be another part of the sadness. I continue on my day, limiting caffeine, watching what I eat and gaining a pound a minute. Before bed, Jim injects more medication into my buttocks. These medications are supposed to be getting my body ready to have a baby but for some reason this small thing that I want so badly is so hard to achieve. Since the day I met Jim, we’ve wanted a baby. We’ve picked out names, first outfits, and ways we want to tell our parents the news. It’s been 4 years since we agreed we wanted to start trying and we still don’t have it. Just before Covid hit, we decided to see a fertility specialist to help us achieve pregnancy. We tracked my cyc

update on Dystonia and Family

I have been doing as well as could be expected.  I am back in Florida so it's nice to be with Ryan.  Although I am still upset about the whole thing, I am trying hard to smile and not let it show.  The spasms have returned and have gotten worse since the DBS was removed.  When I suck on a piece of candy or ice, my throat tightens up.  It's very scary but Im hoping it won't get any worse.  My neck also twitches sometimes and my foot spasms have come back.  My hand is curled in but if I think about it, I can straighten my wrist (not my fingers).  The most upsetting part is that I was just looking at pictures of myself the day after DBS and I had a huge smile on my face because I had made it through and then a couple weeks later there was a picture of my hand open.  I had never been so excited as I was that day.  I had so much in my head that I wanted to do now that I could use my hand and most of it involved Hailey.  Hailey helped me get through the surgery and I was getting

Pregnant With Dystonia

Well, hello there and welcome to my blog. These last couple months have been stressful, exciting, painful, happy and scary. I'm working on keeping these feelings positive! A couple of years ago I was diagnosed with Dystonia. My left hand has curled into a fist and I can no longer use my fingers. My wrist is permanantly stuck in a spasm and I now wear a brace 24/7. I get daily spasms in my feet and sometimes its hard to walk because I don't know when it is going to happen. I have muscle spasms in my back quite often and occassionally in my neck and jaw. On top of the dystonia, I have multi-directional instability in both of my shoulders, causing them to dislocate very frequently. In February, 2010 I took a home pregnancy test and it was positive! It was the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. Although my boyfriend and I were a little nervous, we smiled and started to plan our life together with our baby that was on the way. Since then, I haven't been able